I try very hard to introduce to my girls the same things I would if they were boys. As far as interests go, I don't want to treat them any different. The girls get more than their fair share of SEC sports (we love the new SEC Network), all types of history movies, and yes...Indiana Jones. They love Indiana Jones. It all started when Caroline took a liking to Captain Jack Sparrow. I thought maybe I would have a chance to get them to like some of the same things I did. She would always want to watch Pirates of the Caribbean. Then it became a Star Wars thing, and it has now morphed into a complete love for The Avengers.
All four girls love the movies and have seen every movie starting with the original Iron Man. Many of them at the theatre. They often know more about the comic book characters than many of my friends. For instance, Caroline knew that Falcon in Captain America 2 was not wearing the same outfit that he does in the comic books. Here in Park Ridge, its a trendy thing for kids to load up their backpacks with key chains. Baylor Grace has one, it is a heavy hammer. Thor's hammer to be precise. She likes Thor, because they both have long blond hair and blue eyes, Reagan often wears Captain America's shields as her ear rings. This is her in her Captain America T-Shirt.
The girls often go with me to the movies to see them when they first come out. Here I am, walking into a comic book movie with anywhere from 1-4 girls following behind. It does get some looks. I could not care less.
It really was good for Caroline that she liked to read comic books. Reagan will read an instruction manual if it is all she can get her hands on. However, with her eyes the way they are, reading a continuation of items (like a chapter book) was always harder on Caroline. Comic books were written in a way that was enjoyable and not too difficult for her eyes. She she would read every comic book I would give her. She is currently reading Marvel's Civil War graphic novel, which is one of their best series (and no, it has nothing to do with America's Civil War) Now that she has bifocals it isn't as difficult for her to read, but for a while, comic books were the majority of her reading. I was totally okay with this. It was something else her and I could bond over.
I think they get that superheroes are not real, but we believe in them in this house for sure. Much like Santa, Captain America stands for everything their Daddy stands for. While girls are getting into all sorts of things that have questionable morals, most of our comic book heroes stand up for what is good. The movies are done in such a fantastic way that I don't need to skip too many parts. Maybe a little of Iron Man, and Guardians of the Galaxy (which is awesome) probably need to wait a bit until they are older. But in life, you have to believe in the good guys. You have to pull for the good guys. That's why Capt's shield is something I'm glad they enjoy. If I am in a good mood, Im often wearing my Captain America clothes, if I am in a bad mood...its The Punisher. That is probably a different blog on a different day.
Caroline once asked me if I were Captain America? I asked her, had she ever seen Captain America and her daddy in the same room at the same time? Perhaps its what I do when I go on my "work trips." You should have seen the look in her face. Their feelings for The Avengers changed a little when Reagan told me that Baylor Grace thought Thor was handsome. Now, they all have a crush on Chris Evans version of Captain America. Hey, I don't blame them, he is a good looking dude.
So this brings me to the picture of Hadley above. This has been her first week of her new school, where she knows virtually no one. Hadley is doing what Hadley does, charming everyone into loving her. If they only knew what a holy terror she really is. Anyway, after school on Thursday her teachers let her select something from the prize jar, and she selected the Hulk pez dispenser. The teachers, at first, weren't sure if she really wanted that. Did she really know what she was getting? Why would she select Hulk, when she could have selected all the princess ones? Hadley insisted, because she loves "Superhero poovies," as she calls it. She knows all about Hulk, Captain "Amerta" and "Four (Thor)" "Fiderman (Spiderman), and the Hulk one is the one she wanted. I couldn't have been more proud of her. She was so proud of herself. I think its appropriate that of all The Avengers, she gravitates towards Hulk. They both sort of have the same effect on a place... HADLEY-SMASH!
I love it. Well rounded young people, not diverted into stereotypical male/female roles or ideas or anything. Good job. BTW I didn't know about Caroline and comic books. Want me to get her some?
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ReplyDeleteThe part with you letting your daughter believe you're Captain America is so precious. My sister Catherine wants to join the army when she gets older. She's 11.
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